Ask a Dominant
I will answer any question you may have about Power Exchange, S/M or D/s relationships (think 50 Shades of Grey, but with more facts and less aggrandizement of abusive behavior and dysfunction).
Maybe you're curious as to what this "50 Shades" stuff is all about, and why so many people seem to have strong opinions about it (while claiming to "never have done any of that stuff myself, BUT..."), or maybe you're more interested than you care to let on, but you're afraid that talking to the wrong person might "send the wrong message," and put you in an uncomfortable situation.
Perhaps you've had someone in your life get very brave, and tell you that they're interested in this stuff, and you don't know what to do or say or think about that.
Maybe you know full well that this kind of thing turns you on, but you have no idea how to get into the community (or get in to the community safely).
In any of these cases, or even if you just want to be able to say that you've "met one of 'those people,' and he seemed cool," I can help.
Shoot me your question, and I'll give you an educated, experienced answer, with no agenda, other than to help folks to understand what "alternative lifestyles" are about. I will not hit on you, lie to you, try to "recruit" you, or dictate to you what you should or should not be into. Your personal life is your own, and you're the only one who decides what you're going to be comfortable with. My job is merely to illuminate the path. Should you choose to walk it, I'll show you where the signposts are.
Training & Qualifications
I am a practicing Dominant in my personal relationship, as well as professionally. I am also a life and relationship coach, with 20+ years of experience. I speak and present internationally regarding relationships, "alternative lifestyles" (including BDSM), kink, and (believe it or not) parenting. I work with private clients (singles and partners) to help them create and maintain the loves and lives that allow them to experience true joy. I am a member of the Board of Directors for the Calgary Center for Sex Positive Culture, a non-profit society with the mission to provide experiences and resources that facilitate sex positive education and community.
Basically, my day job AND my volunteer time involve talking about love, sexuality, and being happy.
Availability & Preferences