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I will answer any question you may have about Power Exchange, S/M or D/s relationships (think 50 Shades of Grey, but with more facts and less aggrandizement of abusive behavior and dysfunction).

Maybe you're curious as to what this "50 Shades" stuff is all about, and why so many people seem to have strong opinions about it (while claiming to "never have done any of that stuff myself, BUT..."), or maybe you're more interested than you care to let on, but you're afraid that talking to the wrong person might "send the wrong message," and put you in an uncomfortable situation.

Perhaps you've had someone in your life get very brave, and tell you that they're interested in this stuff, and you don't know what to do or say or think about that.

Maybe you know full well that this kind of thing turns you on, but you have no idea how to get into the community (or get in to the community safely).

In any of these cases, or even if you just want to be able to say that you've "met one of 'those people,' and he seemed cool," I can help.

Shoot me your question, and I'll give you an educated, experienced answer, with no agenda, other than to help folks to understand what "alternative lifestyles" are about. I will not hit on you, lie to you, try to "recruit" you, or dictate to you what you should or should not be into. Your personal life is your own, and you're the only one who decides what you're going to be comfortable with. My job is merely to illuminate the path. Should you choose to walk it, I'll show you where the signposts are.

Training & Qualifications


I am a practicing Dominant in my personal relationship, as well as professionally. I am also a life and relationship coach, with 20+ years of experience. I speak and present internationally regarding relationships, "alternative lifestyles" (including BDSM), kink, and (believe it or not) parenting. I work with private clients (singles and partners) to help them create and maintain the loves and lives that allow them to experience true joy. I am a member of the Board of Directors for the Calgary Center for Sex Positive Culture, a non-profit society with the mission to provide experiences and resources that facilitate sex positive education and community.

Basically, my day job AND my volunteer time involve talking about love, sexuality, and being happy.

Availability & Preferences


By Appointment

Trading Preference: I’m flexible, just hit me up!

Reviews of Jason


Alexis received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Dec 26, 2017
Jason was a perfect gentleman; I highly recommend tapping his wisdom.
Sarah received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Nov 08, 2017
Provided detailed information that illuminated the inner workings of the Army and gave some top-notch info on ropes. Very useful and informative, and... a great fellow besides. Do business with Jason or be square, I dare you.show more
Mo received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Aug 11, 2017
Some of the best constructive criticism I've had in a long while!
Mike received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Aug 07, 2017
Great, informative and insightful. Fantastic experience. Very friendly.
Kristen received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Jul 25, 2017
Jason was very informative in his answer. Thank you
Emily received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Jul 24, 2017
Great guy to work with
Mikey received unit of Ask a Dominant from Jason
Jul 27, 2017
He has thus far explained it quite and I don't feel judged :) he definitely tried to incorporate my gender identity and my partner's but I too have an... open mind so everything worked out :) He is awesome to talk to as well :)show more
Cheryle received unit of Suggest A Great Book from Jason
Feb 17, 2018
Jason has excellent follow through! Thks!
Ian received unit of Suggest A Great Book from Jason
Dec 27, 2017
Jason put a lot of attention and care in his service and made a great recommendation
Benjamin received unit of Suggest A Great Book from Jason
Dec 09, 2017
Jason had a great recommendation for me. Thanks Jason!


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About Jason Blank

I am a professional speaker, educator and coach in the field of relationships, sexuality, kink, polyamory, power exchange dynamics, and sensation play. I speak at events, trade shows, seminars, conv...entions, etc. If you think I might be a fit to speak for your organization, be a guest on your podcast or radio show, or emcee your event, feel free to reach out. I also do coach clients privately as individuals or partners. I serve as a member of the Board of Directors for a non-profit society that supports sex positivism and education in Calgary and the surrounding area, and am happy to serve as a resource for those looking for education on sexuality, or to fact-check articles or blog posts, etc. PLEASE NOTE: While I DO work in the world of relationships, power exchange (BDSM), and sexuality, I AM NOT offering ANY sexual activities, pornography, etc. for sale or trade. I do discuss adult topics frankly and with candor, but I will not engage in "sexy talk," writing or exchanging erotica, or anything that would be in violation of the terms of service of Simbi. In addition to my work (which I love!), I also enjoy reading (sci-fi/fantasy, self-help, sexuality, relationships, and psychology, among others), writing, walking and hiking, being on the water, camping, and exploring the world with my partner. I'm also a dad, and a U.S. Army veteran. If there's anything in my profile that interests you, or that you'd like to ask questions about, feel free to reach out! show more

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