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5 per session - Virtual OK - Posted Nov 04, 2017

Often times we are curious about a variety things that sometimes are considered taboo. We avoid asking the questions though out of fear of judgement or rejection. BDSM is often one of these topics.

There’s no need to fear when it comes to me. I am not here to judge nor make assumptions. I just want to give thoughtful, honest answers from the perspective of being a submissive.

Ask me anything that comes to mind; no question is really too taboo, and I will answer you honestly. If I do not know the answer through personal experience I will do my best to research the subject and get back to you.

When appropriate, I can try to help guide you resources that can expand on that interest or knowledge. Knowledge and communication are huge when it comes to BDSM so maybe you’re just looking for advice, that works too.

Do you wonder:
“What is it like being submissive?”
“How do I communicate with a submissive?”
“What can protocol look like in a group dynamic?”
“Is it just a bedroom thing?”
“What is the different terminology and what does it mean?”

The only thing off limits is pushing for information about me specifically. Any inappropriate comments or behavior will not be tolerated and I will block you from further trades with me.

Training & Qualifications


I have been on the outskirts of the scene for almost 15 years. I only say outskirts because I haven’t been much involved with munches or other public events in the community as a whole. I have done tons of reading and research as well as deep discussions with others of like-minded interests.

Availability & Preferences


Usually evenings but varies greatly.

Trading Preference: I’m flexible, just hit me up!

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Mar 09, 2018
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Great help
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Nov 11, 2017
Friendly. Would work with again. :)
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Nov 07, 2017
Very nice person and creative personality! Glad you’re a part of the Simbi community!
Jul 09, 2018
Great insight and advice
Jun 17, 2018
Dara was open to my questions and she shared her personal story with me. I feel grateful to learn her point of view on ADHD-ADD
Mar 29, 2018
Dara is a very original, authentic person. 💚
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About Dara Wilhelmson

Hmm. Not sure what to put here to be honest. There’s so many things but so hard to put into words. I: ~am a mother to an incredible little girl. ~am a Cancer. ~was in the military for 10 year...s. Now that I’m out I love to change my hair to crazy colors! ~am a business owner as a sexual health educator and also work at a coffee shop. ~would describe myself as an all around geek; loving everything from gaming, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Ren Fests, and cons. I have a pretty base knowledge in a lot of things and love to hear people talk about their passions. ~love to read, though I don’t do it nearly as often as I would like. Some of my favorite books: Honor Harrington series, Ender series, Harry Potter, and just about anything by Neil Gaiman. ~love to listen to music and will almost always have something playing. I love to sing along but generally don’t around other people unless I feel very comfortable. I can’t say I really have a favorite genre as it all depends on the day but I tend to avoid most rap and polka. ~love to be around people but I am also the introverted extrovert. I tend to surprise people because they think I’m shy and reserved to begin with because I tend to sit back and watch mostly, but once I’m comfortable I have a “no holds barred” kind of personality. ~believe that open & honest communication is an absolute MUST in any type of relationship whether friendship or romantic. Along with trust and respect, these are what builds strong foundations and will allow you to weather any storm. Sometimes my honesty can get me in trouble though because I tend to be more direct or blunt than some people like or they feel that I am less than tactful. show more

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