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Crash course in BDSM safety
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Safety is super important!
I will go over one category of information at a time with you for a two hour session on safety and practical learning. I will also be available after the session for questions whenever you need me.
- Dating both online and real life
In this we will go over what to look for, red flags and warning signs. How to make smart decisions that will keep you alive and mentally sane. How to set up and use safe calls, and meeting someone for the first time.
- Playtime, Gear and safewords.
In this, I will go over negotiation, safewords, aftercare, follow-ups and how to set up a scene so that you can continue to communicate effectively and have a safe and enjoyable time with your partner.
- Negotiating power exchanges
In this, I will go over setting up realistic expectations, goals and how to spot warning signs and red flags for abusive behavior.
Training & Qualifications
I have been an active member of my local community off and on since 2011. I am a switch, which means that I play from both sides of the spectrum. I have attended classes and discussions detailing different play styles as well as safety from all angles.
Availability & Preferences
Mornings, or Wednesday and Thursdays.
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