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75 per session - Virtual OK - Posted Nov 20, 2019

My work is for 2 types:

1) Those who are in a new relationship (the honeymoon phase), and

2) Those who are ready for a relationshift but have a partner who's not into counseling

In a new relationship that you want to last? Do you have that spark of connection, but want to see some changes that you don't know how to actualize?

By helping you express your needs and desires with love and create healthy boundaries, I will guide you to build your relationship on a solid foundation. I will help you address issues as they arise so you can nurture your relationship in such a way that it blossoms into the deep connection you desire.

Or maybe you're ready for a relationshift, but have a partner who's not open to counseling. I will empower you to transform your relationship by transforming yourself. I will show you how to organically get your needs met without having to make demands. It has the effect of couples counseling, only we do it without your partner, and your partner never even has to know!

Bring me the things you want to see change in your relationship or your partner, and I will guide you to articulate your needs and desires from a place of clarity and love. I will show you ways to inspire your partner to embody the change you wish to see in your relationship. You will leave our session empowered you to make subtle shifts in your relationship and yourself that create powerful, genuine, and lasting change.

Training & Qualifications

I have devoted over 20 years to empowering women, men, and couples to have the loving, supportive, and healthy relationships they crave. I have a trauma-informed coaching background in Attachment Theory, Love/Apology Languages, Healing from Heartbreak, Self-love/Worthiness, Conflict Resolution, Nonviolent Communication (NVC). and more.

I have practiced and developed out-of-the-box strategies for every form of conscious relating, and guide you from the vantage point of extensive experience navigating conventional, monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and open relationships. I have had exclusively successful relationships this lifetime, and am still passionately in love with my real-life punk rock fairytale prince after 13.5 years of monogamous bliss!

Everyone deserves and is worthy of love. I look forward to helping you achieve a happy, thriving relationship that grows with you.

Availability & Preferences

afternoons and evenings

Trading Preference: I’m flexible, just hit me up!

Reviews of Dragonfly

Geoffrey received session of RELATIONSHIFT: RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY from Dragonfly
Mar 11, 2023
Meeting Dragonfly and getting a chance to speak with her about the things in life that matter and getting to know her a little and see her share her t...ruth with joy and reckless vulnerability truly has been one of the most pleasurable and rewarding experiences I’ve had on planet Earth. show more
Natalee received session of RELATIONSHIFT: RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY from Dragonfly
Mar 08, 2021
I so appreciate Dragonfly's wisdom and perspective. Highly recommend working with her.
Chiraya received session of RELATIONSHIFT: RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY from Dragonfly
Nov 20, 2020
As always, Dragonfly is a GEM of a coach, listener and guide. Bless you! :)
Chiraya received session of RELATIONSHIFT: RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY from Dragonfly
Oct 23, 2020
Wow, what a fantastic and helpful relaitonship session with Dragonfly! She is a strong Goddess of Light who can help you navigate your inner realms an...d get really profoundly helpful more
Tanya left review for Dragonfly
Apr 20, 2023
Thank you 🙏. I look forward to connecting in the future.
Maria provided unit of Simbi 101 - How to get started FREE for Dragonfly
Feb 20, 2023
I hope you enjoyed the info.
Geoffrey provided hour of Website Design Training for Dragonfly
Feb 09, 2023
Wow what an amazing experience getting to know Dragonfly. She was lovely to be creative with, even with some research and science sprinkled in. Hope work with her again soon!show more
Ana provided package of Crush your fitness goals course for Dragonfly
Jan 30, 2023
I hope Dragonfly enjoys the course!! Very friendly to work with :)
Danielle provided session of Past Life Regression Therapy for Dragonfly
Jan 28, 2023
Thank you for allowing me to be your guide to your past lives! It was so wonderful to experience those beautiful images with you.
Katherine provided unit of Personalize Diet Plan for Dragonfly
Nov 04, 2022
Lovely to work with. She sent me what I needed to help her.


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About Dragonfly De La Luz

I'm a professional writer, copy editor, and proofreader who moonlights as a relationship alchemist. I was raised by hippies so I've been immersed in esoteric study (quantum physics, spirituality, ...and the occult) since childhood. I've been eating a plant-based diet almost my entire life (again, hippie parents!), and have an eclectic sense of style, humor, and music. I am also a Pleiadean hybrid born to two human parents who are abductees. I love helping people by sharing what I know, including cultivating happiness and harmony in love, deepening our connection to Source, and what I learned manifesting my way around the world for three years on a budget that was only meant to last three months! My offerings on Simbi include (or will include) the following: Relationship Alchemy - coaching for those who want to transform their relationships by transforming themselves Pleiadean Spiritual Counseling Love Letters - written by me, in your voice, to your beloved Editing - I offer a plethora of editing services which I may or may not advertise here; just reach out to me privately if you're interested. When I’m not laser-focused on editing, I snuggle up to a real-life punk rock fairytale prince I’m still passionately in love with 13 years in. My side hustle is my soul’s calling: coaching women to revitalize and alchemize their most important relationships. I treat people with love and care. I adore picnics in cemeteries, big boots + little skirts, and getting dizzy from more

Open to other proposals
Dragonfly De La Luz is looking for:
  • Makeup
  • Digital Marketing
  • Website Consulting
  • Web/Software Development
  • Learning
  • Music Lessons
  • Dietary Counselling
  • Consulting & Coaching
  • Experiences
  • Travel
  • New Age
  • Adventure
  • Life Coaching
  • Counseling & Therapy
  • Healing Arts
  • Massage
  • Wellness
  • Personal Training
  • Pilates