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Neutral 3rd Party Judgement

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25 per session - Virtual OK - Posted Aug 15, 2020

Are you having a disagreement with your roommate about the division of chores? A quarrel with your neighbor over their yard being a mess? If you have a minor dispute, and would like a neutral third party to weigh in, I will be that person. :)

You message me a brief explanation of your issue, and I ask any questions I might have. After getting clarification if needed, I'll give you my judgement. Because sometimes we just need someone who is not invested in the argument to get a little clarity and compromise.

I think it would work best if BOTH sides agree to this and give me their version of events/side of the argument, but in the tradition of "Am I The A**hole" posts, if you just want to privately ask about something where you're maybe questioning yourself, I can do that too.

I offer this service in the hopes of helping people diffuse tensions. I see so much escalation in the world today, and on social media, where neighbors don't even talk to each other, they just assume the worst and act accordingly. I've long thought we need more things to settle these natural disputes between neighbors like having a trusted third party or perhaps a wise elder in the community or a neutral SOMEBODY to weigh in before people "go nuclear," as it were. So I thought, hey - that's a service I can offer. :)

Training & Qualifications


I am that friend that others go to for advice a lot. :)

Availability & Preferences


My schedule varies all the time but this is probably a thing we can do via messages here on Simbi?

Trading Preference: I’m flexible, just hit me up!

Reviews of Phoenix Wren


Rhiana received unit of Plant a Tree for Free from Phoenix Wren
Jun 03, 2023
Great deal and really pleased!
Sarah provided Help with Postage Stamps for Phoenix Wren
May 22, 2023
Lovely and patient. Doing GREAT things in the world in both big and small ways.
Sumeet received unit of Plant a Tree for Free from Phoenix Wren
Mar 28, 2023
Inspiring person who cares for the environment. She shared a referral code with me to help plant a tree, and I enjoyed the process. Was able to contri...bute to a worthy cause. Highly recommended. show more
Meagan received session of Long distance reiki healing from Phoenix Wren
Jun 27, 2022
Phoenix is wonderful!
Jo received unit of Plant a Tree for Free from Phoenix Wren
May 25, 2022
Thanks Phoenix for making this available to the Simbi community. Brilliant initiative 🌳🌲💚🐨🐦🐿️
Grethie received unit of Small Space Compost Help from Phoenix Wren
May 04, 2022
It was a great experience working with Phoenix Wren. She responded fast and explained everything very consisely. Although we only corresponded via wri...tten mail she still got her warmth accross and I would not mind asking for her help again! Thanks Phoenix Wren! show more
Iris Betts received session of Long distance reiki healing from Phoenix Wren
Apr 17, 2022
Bless you, Phoenix for your loving intentions, insights and service. I know world class and she looks like you! Priceless treasure! Humanitarian Heali...ng Award Winner!show more
Dr JuJu provided session of Neuro-Emotional Healing for Phoenix Wren
Apr 06, 2022
It was a delight to work with Phoenix. She was open and receptive to deep healing to take place so that she can now freely open her wings wide and soa...r high as her name, Phoenix. Thank you, Phoenix for the opportunity to hold space and witness your healing and transformation.show more
Joshua received unit of Plant a Tree for Free from Phoenix Wren
Mar 03, 2022
This is great! I haven't planted trees since I was a little boy. I planted to Douglas Firs. And they both grown to be taller than I am and they're hug...e. I thought that I would never be able to sit under their shade, but I can. They're beautiful trees. And thanks to Phoenix, I've just planted another tree that will help protect orcas. I love orcas. They're some of my favorite apex predators and I love trees and it was just a great experience!show more
Meagan received session of Long distance reiki healing from Phoenix Wren
Mar 02, 2022
Phoenix is hands down the best reiki experience I’ve had in my life. She’s extremely talented and a joy to exchange with.


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Phoenix Wren's requests


Phoenix Wren is requesting
Postage Stamps
Hello! Do you have a stash of US mail postage stamps you no longer need? I would love to buy some from you because I love sending snail mail. I'll pay 100 Simbi per 10 stamps if that works for you!

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About Phoenix Wren Paasch

The crazy cat human, tree hugging, writer Druid your mama always warned you about! I am a novelist and blogger, pet sitter and painter, pedestrian and polytheist. :) I've lived in Colorado for over ...30 years, and I enjoy animals, crafting, art, and writing. I'm pretty domestic and prone to upcycling and cooking from scratch, so if there is a homemaking skill you want to learn, there's a fair chance I might be able to help! You can find my first novel, Son of the Sun, on Amazon as well as locally in the shop Spirit Ways on Colfax. show more

Open to other proposals
Phoenix Wren Paasch is looking for:
  • Veterinary
  • Fresh Produce
  • Food
  • Transport & Rideshares
  • Counseling & Therapy
  • Healing Arts
  • Massage
  • Custom Art