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Trans big brother

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Forward

1 value - Virtual OK - Posted Mar 08, 2017

I will give advice on how to handle life either as a trans person or when someone you care about comes out as trans. I consider myself pretty outside the box, so even if you just need someone to vent to without being judged, consider me here to listen.
I can offer advice about how to approach medical professionals, what to bend on and where to stand firm, what sort of behaviors and opinions to expect and how to handle them, how to handle being misgendered and the response, tricks and tips for passing, and safe ways to come out to others.
On the flip side, I can advise those who find themselves at a loss for proper etiquette involving the treatment of transgendered people, including: appropriate responses to misgendering, how to politely ask preferred pronouns, what not to ask and why, how to reset yourself for the new gender, and how to show support in extremely valuable ways.

Training & Qualifications


I am both gay and trans and have collected a lot of information on the entire subject. I'm also very thick skinned and can tell the difference between unknowing curiosity and outright animosity, so I won't be easily offended by pretty much any question. I've honestly probably heard it already.

Availability & Preferences


Pretty much every day. I have an event one weekend a month where I will be unreachable.

Trading Preference: Pay it forward – pass on the good deed!

Reviews of Ruadhán


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Inactive User received session of Trans big brother from Ruadhán
Apr 04, 2017
Quick, informative, and helpful. Thank you very much!
Charles received session of Trans big brother from Ruadhán
Mar 26, 2017
Ruadhan is very supportive and an all around amazing person.
Elizabeth received hour of You can boil water from Ruadhán
Mar 19, 2017
He was very friendly and helpful in finding me recipes I can cook. Thank you so much!

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About Ruadhán Whailen

I graduated with a degree on biology from Birmingham-Southern College, but have a passion for reading, writing, gardening and sewing. I'm a bit of a home body, but I don't mind going out from time to ...time.show more

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