ONLINE DATING OVERHAUL FOR 21-38MEN
30F Burner stand up comic mom who is Super chill and easy to be around who wants to help nice 21-38M guys who are clueless about how to present themselves online and want to get actual dates leading hopefully to some kind of ongoing relationship. poly, monogamous, whatever, as long as it's respectful, honest and not a hook up is the goal. I do not desire to be a pick up artist, but to help kind, respectful men impress kind, respectful women on social media and have it hopefully lead to a fulfulling, ongoing connection :-) I've been online dating on and off since 2007 and I have learned a LOT. I know a lot of tips and tricks for: tinder, OKC, POF, etc. I have been on at least 40 in person dates between relationships, mostly in Asheville. We would meet in public locally in a coffee house or something or I can help with just the profile part online. In person is preferable so I can read your vibe and be able to tell you, from my perspective, how you "come off" with a respectful critique of your clothing, mannerisms, topics of conversation, eye contact habits, etc with the goal of helping you, not putting you down. Trust me, I'm really nice! :-) Overhaul includes:
#"ABOUT ME" editing for content and spelling/grammar- you're going to seem really interesting and cool from the male-attracted persuasion, I promise
#PHOTO CHOICES- Chose attractive photos and maybe take some
#SAFETY 101- safety is sexy. How to avoid unintentional red flags and make her feel more comfortable with you without accidently being creepy. Offering a goofy face photo of her choice to prove your physical identity is a great choice (she may request a peace sign with it for example). NEVER suggest that you meet someone for the first time in a non-public place.
#TEXTING AND SEXTING 101- We can practice on tinder! :-)
#HOW TO AVOID MEETING IN PERSON FAUX PAUXS (where to go for dates, what to wear, etc.)
Text message questions after initial consultation are welcome.
Training & Qualifications
I am a chronic online dater who knows what she's talking about. Trust.
Availability & Preferences
Every other week, free most times SUN-SAT after 12 pm. Not free Wednesdays after 5 pm.