I have been doing public speaking about non-monogamous relationship models, kink, sexual ethics, and consent and sexual negotiation practices for over 20 years, and have had the great privilege of supporting people through many different stages of their journeys.
I am a queer, kinky, married, polyamorous mother of two. I’ve navigated polyamory in many different forms. I was a dedicated solo poly/relationship anarchist for years before I met my husband. We were functionally monogamous for a decade, because that felt like the right place for us to be for that time. About 6 years ago, we transitioned to being actively polyamorous. These days, my husband and I raise our kids and keep a warm and loving home with each other. Both of us are also lucky enough to have found loving and supportive partnerships outside the nest. It has been a rewarding and challenging journey, full of personal growth and discovery.
My family has become large and far-reaching. We are all of us dedicated to nurturing dynamics of unique connection, respect, and intimacy in our relationships with partners, metamours, friends, and lovers.