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10 per unit - Virtual OK - Posted Sep 19, 2017

Do you have questions or confusion about what transgender, cisgender, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, or any similar terms are? What life is like for a trans person? How you can make life better for a trans person you know? Wondering if you might be trans & want a sympathetic & experienced ear to listen? I'm your person!

I'm open to very basic questions, more in depth questions, personal questions, general questions, any questions! I'm not shy about telling you if I'm uncomfortable answering something, so don't worry about asking something too personal - I won't be offended by the ask, only if you get upset when I don't want to answer! One question I will absolutely refuse to answer is what my genitals looks like. If you want to ask if I've had surgeries, please tell me why you want to know or expect to be refused.

Training & Qualifications


I am transgender, genderqueer, and transmasculine. My life is my qualifications. I've been doing (untrained) support work within the queer community for 8 years and answering questions both in and out of the community for 5 years.

Availability & Preferences


open

Trading Preference: I’m flexible, just hit me up!

Reviews of Adrian


Dec 29, 2018
Wonderful timely and detailed responses very friendly.
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Inactive User received unit of Ask a Trans/Genderqueer Person from Adrian
Mar 16, 2018
Adrian is incredibly helpful and approachable. They're very friendly and go out of their way to not only answer questions but locate valuable resource...s. I highly recommend them. and plan to use their services in the future. A great experience! show more
Rexaven Asher received unit of Ask a Trans/Genderqueer Person from Adrian
Oct 19, 2017
For some reason there were technical difficulties with me leaving this review earlier. I think Adrian was good to work with and would work with them a...gain if the opportunity came up in the future.show more
Sep 19, 2017
Good, long answer. Very thorough and explanatory.
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Jun 20, 2021
Adrian has great, exciting stories and it was wonderful working together! 😊
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Mar 04, 2021
It was truly a treat connecting with Adrian!
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Jan 30, 2021
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About Adrian Schaefer

Hello! I'm Adrian, and the other cute face in my picture is my former service dog Riley. Both of my service dogs retired to other homes, but I'm quite honestly too lazy to change the picture. I liv...e with some visible and invisible disabilities. I don't always have the spoons for it, but I am passionate about disability advocacy, particularly people with invisible disabilities and children with disabilities. I'm also passionate about advocacy for people of color, economically disadvantaged people, trans and queer people, and service dogs and their handlers and trainers. I'm learning to use my privilege constructively. I love to write! I do fiction and poetry as well as largely ignoring two nonfiction blogs I have, one for advocacy and one for food and recipes. My days are shaped by my foster cats, writing, and cooking and eating. In between all of that, I love watching tv and playing Ticket to Ride and other board and card games. (Cards Against Humanity, Dominion, Magic: The Gathering, Seven Wonders, and many others!) I also love to read. Want to know more? Just ask! I'm pretty open & not shy about politely telling you if I'd rather not answer. show more

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